An erogenous zone is any area on the human body that produces arousal once stimulated. It comes from the Greek words "eros" (love) and "genous" (producing). Communication is key let your partner know where your hot spot zones are or you both could do some pleasure mapping. Take the time to learn each other's bodies.
Erogenous zones differ by the person but they very common amongst men and women. Female erogenous zones include:
- The breast (especially the nipples)
- Inner thighs
- Nape of neck
- Mouth and lips
- Upper and Lower back
- Pubic area
- Buttocks
Male erogenous zones include:
- Lips
- Earlobes
- Nape of neck
- Abdomen
- Lower and Upper back
- Nipples
- Perineum (the area between the anus and scrotum)
There are many ways to stimulate these areas on the body you can use adult toys, feathers, fingers, your mouth, ice, and oils just to name a few.